Be the parent and not the friend to your child - that’s what they need →

August 23, 2024 by Gail Smith in Children, Communication, Decision Making, Education, Experiences, Family, Parenting, Problem Solving, relationship, Responsibility, Well being

Be your children's best friend or be their parent? While we naturally want to support and comfort our children, sometimes the best way to do that is by making clear, rational decisions—even when it means not always being their best friend. After all, being the best parent often means making tough choices for the well-being of your child.

Encouraging your child to write well →

August 14, 2024 by Gail Smith in Achievement, Activity, Children, Communication, Education, Family, Finding Help, Independence, Language development, Language skills, Learning, Library, Listening, Parenting, Potential, Problem Solving, School involvement, Screen time, Self Esteem, spelling, Starting School, Support, Technology, Writing

Some children struggle with writing, finding it difficult to start and continue their stories. Parents can help by providing engaging activities that spark motivation. Gail Smith offers suggestions to show children the power of the written word. Read on to discover more on how to encourage your child's writing journey!

Six reasons why giving your child quality time works →

August 07, 2024 by Gail Smith in Activity, Behaviour, Children, Communication, creative, Education, Experiences, Family, Happiness, Independence, Learning, Parenting, Personality, Positive Behaviour, Problem Solving, relationship, Self Confidence, Stress, Well being

The time you spend with your child is invaluable and leaves a lasting impact on their sense of being loved and secure. As they grow into teenagers and become more independent, those shared moments become even more precious. Gail Smith shares six surprising benefits of dedicating time to your child in this insightful blog post.

Keep yourself well and healthy as a parent →

July 31, 2024 by Gail Smith in Appreciation, Behaviour, Children, Decision Making, Emotional Intelligence, Emotions, Family, Finding Help, Happiness, Kindness, Learning, Mindfulness, Mental Support, Memories, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, Problem Solving, relationship, Resilience, Sleep, Support, Stress, Well being

As parents, it's easy to focus solely on our children's well-being and overlook our own. However, maintaining our own mental and physical health is crucial for effective parenting. Gail Smith explains how prioritizing self-care enhances our ability to be the best parents we can be. Keep your well-being at the forefront to savor the joys of parenting.

It is important to speak well to your children →

July 31, 2024 by Gail Smith in active listening, Appreciation, Behaviour, Children, Communication, Confidence, Decision Making, Education, Emotional Intelligence, Family, Emotions, Gratitude, Kindness, Language, Language development, Language skills, Learning, Listening, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, relationship, Role model, Self Confidence, Self Esteem

Children quickly pick up on what you say and how you say it, understanding the value you place on them. Gail Smith highlights six compelling reasons why speaking positively to children is crucial and the potential harm caused when we don’t. This insightful blog post sheds light on the importance of nurturing communication.

How To Keep Your Anger Under Control Around Children →

July 24, 2024 by Gail Smith in Behaviour, Children, Communication, Confrontation, Education, Emotional Intelligence, Family, Learning, Mental Support, Parenting, relationship, Well being

Feeling angry from time to time is natural, especially when tired or overwhelmed, but frequent displays of anger can significantly impact children. Intermittent anger can confuse and distress them, often causing them to withdraw. Gail Smith shares useful strategies to help you manage your anger.

Self Care Tips for Busy Parents →

July 17, 2024 by Gail Smith in Activity, Children, Emotions, Family, Gratitude, Happiness, holiday, Kindness, Laughter, meditation, Mental Support, Mindfulness, Parenting, Relax, Sleep, Sports, Stress, Well being

Remember, a tired parent may find it challenging to give their best to their child. It's essential to prioritize your own happiness and health, as it directly impacts your ability to parent effectively. Gail Smith offers nine practical suggestions to help you create a personal well-being routine. Taking time for yourself amidst the busyness of each day is key to feeling fulfilled and being the best parent you can be.

Keep A Look Out For Signs Of Stress In Your Child →

July 17, 2024 by Julie Merrett in Authenticity, Behaviour, Children, Communication, Confidence, Councelling Techniques, Counselling Tips, Education, Emotions, Experiences, Family, Finding Help, Mental Support, Parenting, Problem Solving, Safety, Responsibility, Self Esteem, Sleep, Stress, Support, Trauma, Well being

In today's world, we often check in on our children's mental health. Social media and other challenges faced by youth remind us to stay vigilant. Gail Smith points out some common triggers that may indicate your child is under too much stress. By recognizing these signs, you can better gauge your child's well-being and offer support when needed. It's important to keep an eye out for these cues to ensure your child feels safe and supported.

Never Underestimate How Important You Are To Your Child At Any Age

July 16, 2024 by Gail Smith in Children, Communication, Confidence, Family, Father, Mother, Mother's Love, Mum, Raising Boys, Raising girls, Role Model

It’s easy to forget the value that our children place on us.

'If you are emotionally and physically present for your child, you are a parent with impact'

-Gail J Smith

Keep An Eye On Your Child's Mental Health

July 15, 2024 by Gail Smith in active listening, Emotional Intelligence, Family, Father, Mental Support, Mindfulness, Mother, Parenting, Support, Well being, Worry

Early detection of your child’s mental health can lead to more effective treatment options. If a parent notices their child is unusually withdrawn or anxious, addressing it early can prevent more serious issues like depression or anxiety disorders. Be alert to changed moods.

Information every parent should know about their child's school →

June 19, 2024 by Gail Smith in Activity, Children, Communication, Education, Family, Learning, Parenting, Responsibility, school, School involvement, Support

Schools can be complex environments, but staying connected can make navigating them much easier. Gail Smith offers valuable tips to help parents gain a deeper understanding and more rewarding experience of school life.

It really matters to listen to your child →

June 12, 2024 by Gail Smith in active listening, Appreciation, Communication, Confidence, Experiences, Family, Emotions, Gratitude, Learning, Listening, Parenting, Problem Solving, relationship, Self Confidence, Self-Esteem

Listening to your child is crucial for building and strengthening your relationship with them. Gail Smith explains five compelling reasons why attentive listening truly matters.

Let’s remind ourselves that as parents we are doing a great job →

June 12, 2024 by Gail Smith in Appreciation, Behaviour, Children, Communication, Education, Experiences, Family, Finding Help, Happiness, Mindfulness, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, Role model, Self Confidence, Self Esteem, Well being, Values, Authenticity, Self-Esteem

Your words, deeds, and actions are powerful examples for your child, shaping their understanding of life. Never underestimate the impact you're having on your child. Parenting in an imperfect world comes with its ups and downs, and it can sometimes feel like your efforts aren't making a difference. Gail Smith shares some reflections to remind us that our efforts are making a difference, even if the impact isn't always visible.

Helping your child navigate social challenges at school →

June 05, 2024 by Gail Smith in Anxiety, Behaviour, Children, Decision Making, Discrimination, Education, Emotions, Experiences, Family

Social challenges at school are a normal part of growing up. When your child navigates these situations well, they grow in both intellectual and social maturity. Encouraging your child to stay optimistic and believe in their ability to overcome social issues is crucial. Here are some tips to help them understand that there are many ways to work through social challenges.

Helping our children to love reading →

June 05, 2024 by Gail Smith in Activity, Appreciation, Behaviour, Children, Education, Family, Experiences, Happiness, Language, Learning, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, Reading, Role Model, school, Screen time, Technology, Well being, Library

Just as we need a balanced diet for our health, our children need a balance between books and other forms of entertainment. Explore these strategies to help your child develop a love for reading amidst the digital distractions.

Listening to your child is important for many reasons →

May 29, 2024 by Gail Smith in active listening, Behaviour, Communication, Family, Happiness, Learning, Mental Support, Memories, Role model, Screen time, Support, Technology, Well being

In today's digital age, social media often pulls children away from family connections. Being an effective listener can help bridge this gap. When parents truly listen, children feel valued and their self-worth grows. This creates a healthy pattern where children naturally turn to their parents when they need to talk. Discover strong reasons to stay well-tuned with your child.

As a parent be involved in your child's school. →

May 29, 2024 by Gail Smith in Activity, Appreciation, Children, Communication, Education, Experiences, Family, Learning, Responsibility, school, Support, School involvement

Your child spends many hours per week at school, making it a significant part of their life. By engaging in their school journey, you reinforce the value of formal learning and support their emotional and intellectual growth. It's crucial to be part of that experience. Gail Smith shares several effective ways for parents to ensure excellent communication and involvement in their child's school life. Read on to discover how you can make a positive impact!

Let's get our kids involved in sport and fitness →

May 29, 2024 by Gail Smith in Achievement, Activity, Children, Confidence, Education, Experiences, Family, Parenting, School Sports, Sporting Club, Sports

Creating a love for physical activities and sports in your child starts at home. Gail Smith shares her insights on encouraging kids to get involved in sports and fitness, helping them build a lifelong love for being active.

Developing good mental health in your child →

May 22, 2024 by Gail Smith in Behaviour, Children, Confidence, Communication, Emotions, Family, Happiness, meditation, Mental Support, Mindfulness, Parenting, Role model, Self Confidence, Support, Well being

Building a strong foundation for your child's mental health starts with ensuring they feel safe and happy. Discover practical tips to nurture their well-being during those crucial early years. Gail Smith shares some suggestions to help your child thrive emotionally and mentally.

Ten Steps to more effective parenting →

May 21, 2024 by Gail Smith in Children, Communication, Confidence, Education, Family, Happiness, Learning, Listening, Parenting, Self Confidence, Support, Values, Role model

Parenting isn’t about being perfect; it’s about doing your best, even when life throws challenges your way. Changing circumstances can sometimes make it feel like we’re falling short, but often, we’re doing better than we think. Gail Smith’s checklist is here to help you reflect on your parenting habits and recognize the great job you’re doing.