Keep smiling! Consider that in a normal day you would have less that ten minutes one on one time with your child. You now have a wonderful opportunity to enrich your relationship during this isolation period. No doubt it will come with its trials and tribulations but overall, when we come out of it, think about the unique life journey you have been on with your child. This unique time will never be repeated with your child.

Here are some thoughts on two levels. Firstly, some practical ideas that can be an enjoyable learning experience for your child. Secondly, some practical thoughts about keeping yourself sane and happy.

Firstly, recognise that sustaining long periods of time doing one activity can be difficult for some children. It is useful to have a range of activities that can be repeated overtime. Remember short intervals will have more impact for a child if they are engaged in them. Try to enjoy them with your child and remember that you are not a teacher and everything does not have to be perfect.
Consider a plan. This could be encouraging some innovative learning activities in the morning and after lunch some physical activities to get away the cobwebs and feelings of being cooped up.
Consider keeping a diary. This is a good idea. It does not need to be too long and it helps your child record their feelings and moods along the way. This is quite therapeutic. The diary does not need to be daily but can be used across the week when the mood strikes to write. If your child can’t manage this on their own, make it a family diary where you also write in it.
How about encouraging your child to write encouragement letters to the elderly in homes? Talk about their isolation and how this is a helpful exercise to support the vulnerable.
On large sheets, children can write encouragement slogans and place them on external windows of their house. This is something that can be repeated from time to time. Once again this encourages the children to be positively engaged with the community at large.
Teach your children how to make play dough. This is a fun activity and is enjoyed by the younger children.
Check out various websites on institution like the zoo, children’s museum, art gallery. Many institutions are now putting up wonderful online activities for children.
If you have a tape measure it can be fun measuring the rooms in the house and with assistance drawing a house plan.
In the garden give them a special patch which is just their own. Here they can dig, plant, play, experiment etc.
Setting up a small sandpit is a wonderful activity for children to enjoy.
Use intermittent music to break the activities up in the morning. This gives them some exercise and mental breaks.
How about your child rearranging the pantry and putting a new fresh look into it?
Are their cupboards they can clean out?
I hear of some families setting up a roster where the children are in change of cooking for the night. This of course may involve parental assistance. However, there is the planning, food preparation etc. that needs quite a bit of thought.
Can your child decorate their room from time to time giving it a fresh new look?
Write a story together. This starts with you beginning with:

“Once upon a time” … then the child adds to it, “there was a wolf in the garden”.

You add to the story and so it continues. This is great fun, encourages imagination and by writing it down it becomes your own narrative.

The Primary Years. Ideas during covid-19

In the garden, encourage the children to sketch the plants. There is so much in the garden that can be drawn, painted, photographed and admired. Also teach the child how to press flowers from the garden. This could be a great addition to include in the diary.
Do you have old costume jewellery that you can live without? Children can reshape these into new pieces. This is an excellent art activity.
Can you all knit together? If you don’t know how learn together from a Youtube lesson. That could be fun.
Remember, the more you introduce your child to fresh home grown ideas, the more they value simpler things and learn how to create their own entertainment. For this generation so geared to technology, this is an excellent opportunity to step away from such things. Keep in mind that they are learning in a whole new way.
How about having fun with tai dying old shirts? If you are uncertain about the process simply google it.
Younger children love a dress up box. Have you got some old clothes that can make up such a box?

Consider how you, the parents are feeling. Let’s think about how you are managing such a complex situation under difficult circumstances.

Can you find a few minutes to yourself? This may mean physically removing yourself from the children. A little personal space can make such a difference. Also don’t feel guilty when you have those feelings of being overloaded by the children. It’s natural.
Think positively. I have this precious time with my children. I can build my relationship in this situation but it will be hard from time to time. I understand that there will be days when I operate better than others. This is natural.
When you shop can you include some little treats for yourself. Remember nurturing yourself will make you a better nurturer.
Use the phone more and talk rather that texting. Real conversations are mentally healthier than texting.
Find some funny adult YouTube pieces just for yourself. Here you can giggle and remember the quality of laughing.
Whilst there is nothing humorous about the seriousness of coronavirus, it is still necessary to keep you spirits up and plan hopefully to come out the other end being better for the experience.
If you are having a bad day, do less, remove yourself for a while, put less pressure on yourself, read books, magazines etc. Simply slow down the feelings that are making you unsettled. Accept that these overwhelming feelings are natural and from time to time I will have them. You are trying to live in a whole new world. It takes adjustment for all. Children’s fluctuating behaviour will affect how I operate and this is natural.
Keep in mind that this virus has a short life. There will be an end in sight, thanks to the outstanding human efforts in place and you will come through having embarked on a unique journey with your child, one imprinted in both your minds. What memories do you want to share with them?

“Simple pleasures are the last healthy refuge in a complex world.”

— Oscar Wilde