Finding friends when you first start school

Feeling connected is what this is about.

Parents often worry that their child will not bond with other children and begin to feel isolated.

The good news is that teachers are really switched on about this matter. Schools usually have a special playground or designated areas whereby prep teachers are rostered on during the breaks. Most schools set up a buddy systems where your child has a senior child overseeing them in the yard. This is quite comforting to the child and parents value this support.

All schools are very aware that early days in prep means extra special attention is given to the children settling in to school. Within a few weeks, friendships begin to form and children find small networks on the yard with which to play.

 Ask your teacher the following questions:

  • Is my child bonding well with other children?

  • Are they on their own during the breaks?

  • Do they engage well with other children?

 Just an occasional check in with the teacher will give you that reassurance.

The thought of our children not making friends at school is heartbreaking.

The thought of our children not making friends at school is heartbreaking.