School is such an immense part of a child’s life as well as having a major impact on the whole family. Of course we expect it to be a time that fulfils many objectives including stimulating a child’s imagination and developing a love for learning. We have high expectations when our child steps into the school and we trust that the environment will be a good fit for our child.

What make a child happy when at school? This is important as we now happy students are motivated students.

The school year can be challenging at times. Here's some suggestions for parents to positively encourage you child about school.

They need and want to be an active participant in class. This gives them credibility and a feeling of inclusion.
A busy school with plenty of activities excites and stimulates a child to become actively involved. Schools should not be docile places.
Every child needs to feel appreciated, to regularly have affirmation and acknowledgement for their efforts. No one copes well without feeling that they are capable of success and that they are recognised for their efforts by others that they value.
Regular success feeds the desire to keep learning. A school that focuses on success is a winner.
A child needs to be in relationship with other children. Developing friendships is critical to a child. Their social world is such an important part of their emotional growth. In a school setting, a child can have a powerful journey in building relationships over the years.

Here are some basic thoughts to aid and abet your child getting the best from school this year:

• Listen well to what they have to say

• Be available which may mean adjusting your busy schedule.

• Be a parent and not a friend which at times may take you in a different direction.

• Let them take ownership as much as possible independence is key to better learning.

Talk about school regularly and postively so that it comfortably intertwines with family life.
Remember that it is their school and their journey, which means at times you may need to step back and let them work through issues themselves.
Read everything that comes home from school and talk about all the activities available. Show as much interest as you can in what your child is doing at school.

Finally, for your child to be happy and get the best from the school you need to a be a parent that presents a happy face and shows great pride in all their endeavours.

Good luck family in starting the new school year!

‘It’s one of my favourite seasons of the year: back to school.’
-Dana Perino