Never Underestimate How Important You Are To Your Child At Any Age

July 16, 2024 by Gail Smith in Children, Communication, Confidence, Family, Father, Mother, Mother's Love, Mum, Raising Boys, Raising girls, Role Model

It’s easy to forget the value that our children place on us.

'If you are emotionally and physically present for your child, you are a parent with impact'

-Gail J Smith

Keep An Eye On Your Child's Mental Health

July 15, 2024 by Gail Smith in active listening, Emotional Intelligence, Family, Father, Mental Support, Mindfulness, Mother, Parenting, Support, Well being, Worry

Early detection of your child’s mental health can lead to more effective treatment options. If a parent notices their child is unusually withdrawn or anxious, addressing it early can prevent more serious issues like depression or anxiety disorders. Be alert to changed moods.

Managing anger around children.

December 07, 2023 by Gail Smith in Anxiety, Behaviour, Children, Communication, Learning, Mother, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, Stress, Worry, Father

It’s a natural part of life to feel anger. We need to understand that a child can often misinterpret our anger and will often take on much of the blame when we have a meltdown. Managing our anger around children is the best way to ensure your feelings do not overpower your child. Our angry outbursts can sometimes lead them to shut down and to avoid being in our presence.

Read on for some thoughts on how your anger can influence your child.

A few good tips when managing your child.

December 05, 2023 by Gail Smith in Children, Father, Mother, Positive Behaviour, Parenting

We are all learning how to parent daily. It keeps evolving as new experiences come our way. Nothing is constant as our children develop and change over the years. Read on for some reflections on what works well when engaging with your child.

Learn to have some fun

January 12, 2023 by Gail Smith in Activity, Behaviour, Children, Communication, Emotions, Family, Father, Happiness, Laughter, Mother, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, Raising Boys, Raising girls

Laughter and fun are the key ingredients for a happy, healthy life. Read more for some ways you and your child can have fun!

9 Tips about how to help your child love learning

November 24, 2022 by Gail Smith in Achievement, Activity, Behaviour, Children, Counselling Tips, Education, Emotions, Experiences, Family, Father, Learning, Mother, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, Raising Boys, Raising girls

Learning is a crucial part of life and the development of a child. Here are nine simple parenting tips which may encourage learning for your child.

Choose your battles. That’s the best win.

November 10, 2022 by Gail Smith in Behaviour, Children, Communication, Confrontation, Councelling Techniques, Counselling Tips, Education, Emotions, Family, Father, Learning, Mother, Parenting, Problem Solving, Raising Boys, Raising girls

When raising a child, it is important you pick your battles wisely. Read some parenting tips you may find helpful in these situations.

Tiredness can be a killer at times

November 10, 2022 by Gail Smith in childcare, Children, Communication, Councelling Techniques, Counselling Tips, Decision Making, Emotions, Education, Father, Learning, Parenting, teacher, Mother

This blog provides helpful parenting tips when tiredness is affecting parent and child communication, read more.

How to motivate your child to learn

November 02, 2022 by Gail Smith in Achievement, Behaviour, Children, Education, Family, Father, Learning, Mother, Parenting, Personality, Positive Behaviour, Problem Solving, Reading, school, teacher, Writing

Motivating your child to learn can be quite challenging, here’s a few parenting tips on how to keep your child motivated to learn inside and outside of the classroom.

A few tips to get you started in term four

October 27, 2022 by Gail Smith in Achievement, Behaviour, Communication, education, Family, Father, Learning

The school year is quickly coming to a close. Here are a few parental tips that can assist your child with their final term of the year. Read here for more information.

Help your child to accept and enjoy their differences

October 27, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Emotions, Family, Friendship, Independence, Learning, Mother, Parenting, Father

Children's uniqueness is a crucial part of who they are as individuals. Read some parenting tips to consider on how to embrace and positively encourage diversity.

A little bit of gratefulness goes along way

August 31, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Mother, Parenting, Father

Everyone wants to feel appreciated. Showing gratitude also feels great. It is a power tool for building strong and trusting relationships. What a powerhouse of a gift to give to your child.

How to get the best from your child’s teacher

August 20, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Communication, Education, Emotions, Father, Learning, Mother, Negotiation, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, school, teacher

It makes sense that as a parent you feel confident and that you are in a solid relationship with your child’s teacher. It is important to your teacher, and child also. There are many factors that go into running a school and teaching. Parents are naturally emotional when it comes to their children, so if you have any concerns, you’ll have a better chance of being heard when you are calm and responsibly talk about concerns with your child’s teacher.

Children who find school a struggle

July 03, 2022 by Gail Smith in Anxiety, Children, Communication, Education, Experiences, Mother, Parenting, Problem Solving, Stress, teacher, Worry, Father, Family

Many children have times when they feel they are struggling not just with school but also with friends, home issues, siblings, etc. Children can and do have down times. If your child is struggling, read here for some tips.

The words we choose to use.

June 19, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Communication, Confrontation, Emotions, Father, Mother, Parenting, Positive Behaviour

How we speak to our children is long-lasting. Read here for some thoughts on how to manage ourselves in using effective communication with children.

Being credible is such an important part in parenting

May 18, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Family, Father, Mother, Positive Behaviour, Parenting, Raising Boys, Raising girls, Values

By nature of being a parent you are invited to present such fine qualities as credibility and trust to your child. Never underestimate that such an opportunity is also all about developing yourself as a fully rounded, emotionally intelligent person. Like it or not parenting forces us to grow up!

Teach our children to be courteous →

May 17, 2022 by Gail Smith in Behaviour, Children, Experiences, Father, Mother, Parenting, Positive Behaviour

There is a silent, steady power present in being courteous. You are stronger by nature of your courteous style. By treating someone with dignity no matter how different your thoughts are, there is little with which to argue. After all, they see how you accept them as legitimate. You accept their right to have a voice, which gives you a voice.

The value you have to your child

May 14, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Emotions, Happiness, Mother, Parenting, Values, Father

We appreciate that we are important and that we hold great responsibility and balance of power in taking care of our child. I wonder how often we think about the value we give to our child.

Dr Seuss said “To the world you may be one person; but to one person you may be the world.”

Are you planning everything around your children?

May 11, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Family, Father, Parenting, Mother

Downtime with the family is a vital time to replenish the family spirit, refresh relationships and simply enjoy each other’s company.

What will your child remember about you?

May 06, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Emotions, Experiences, Family, Father, Mother

What do our children really think about us? Are they aware of all our efforts? Do they remember the little details and the extra efforts we make over the years? What is their level of appreciation of us the parents?