What lessons in life do you want to teach your children? →

September 05, 2024 by Gail Smith in Authenticity, Behaviour, Children, Communication, Education, Emotional Intelligence, Emotions, Empowerment, Experiences, Family, Happiness, Independence, Kindness, Listening, Mindfulness, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, Role Model, Support, Well being, Work life balance, Selfcare

As parents, we teach our children countless lessons, but some hold a special significance in shaping their happiness and balance in life. The five lessons below are particularly important to instill, not through grand gestures, but through authenticity and sharing our everyday experiences. Ultimately, being truthful and genuine in our interactions with our children is the most powerful way to guide them.

Good principles of parenting →

August 29, 2024 by Gail Smith in active listening, Behaviour, Boundaries, Children, Communication, Decision Making, education, Emotional Intelligence, Emotions, Experiences, Family, Finding Help, Listening, Mental Support, Mindfulness, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, Problem Solving, Responsibility, Role model, Safety, Well being

The idea of being a perfect parent is a myth. Instead, Gail Smith shares some fundamental principles that can guide us through the ups and downs of parenting. These practices will help you navigate challenges and changes with greater confidence throughout your parenting journey.

Let’s look at some ways in which life can be easier for our working mums. →

August 29, 2024 by Gail Smith in Anxiety, Behaviour, Children, Communication, Emotional Intelligence, Emotions, Empowerment, Experiences, Family, Finding Help, meditation, Mental Support, Mindfulness, Mother, Parenting, Problem Solving, Relax, Sleep, Stress, tasks, Well being, Personal Time, Work life balance, Delegate, Good Enough, Meal Planning, Meal Prep, Boundaries, Break

Mothers, it's important not to underestimate the value of personal time. Balancing family responsibilities while staying calm and rested is no small feat. Though there's no one-size-fits-all solution, it's worth considering ways to make life a bit easier. Parenting shouldn't feel like an overwhelming burden on top of managing home and work. Gail Smith offers practical steps to help you navigate those hectic school weeks with a little more ease.

What you say to your child sticks. →

August 29, 2024 by Gail Smith in active listening, Behaviour, Children, Confidence, Education, Emotional Intelligence, Emotions, Family, Language, Language skills, Learning, Mental Support, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, Self Esteem, Well being, Communication, Empowerment

Here are some of the most powerful phrases you can say to your children, no matter their age. Repeating these words often shows your unwavering love and support as they grow. Whether your child is a toddler or a teen, these statements can help build their confidence and emotional strength. Make them a regular part of your conversations to reinforce your commitment to their well-being.

Be Present for your child. It supports their mental Health →

August 29, 2024 by Gail Smith in active listening, Behaviour, Children, Communication, Education, Emotional Intelligence, Finding Help, Learning, Mental Support, Mindfulness, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, Role Model, Self Confidence, Self Esteem, Support, Well being

Being present for your child is one of the most impactful things you can do as a parent. It’s not about grand gestures or extravagant outings; it’s the simple, healthy, and regular engagement that truly nourishes your child's spirit and sense of well-being. Gail Smith emphasizes that these consistent interactions are crucial for your child's mental health. Read on to find out why.

Mental well being needs to be nourished over the years

August 23, 2024 by Gail Smith in Behaviour, Children, Communication, Confidence, Education, Decision Making, Experiences, Family, Independence, Learning, Mental Support, Mindfulness, Parenting, relationship, Responsibility, Self Confidence

Building a healthy mental state in children doesn't happen overnight—it's about cultivating steady, consistent habits within the family. When children learn to explore and inquire about life, they become more resilient, embracing challenges rather than fearing them. Gail Smith offers practical suggestions to help boost your child's mental health, fostering a mindset where curiosity and confidence flourish.

Be the parent and not the friend to your child - that’s what they need →

August 23, 2024 by Gail Smith in Children, Communication, Decision Making, Education, Experiences, Family, Parenting, Problem Solving, relationship, Responsibility, Well being

Be your children's best friend or be their parent? While we naturally want to support and comfort our children, sometimes the best way to do that is by making clear, rational decisions—even when it means not always being their best friend. After all, being the best parent often means making tough choices for the well-being of your child.

Encouraging your child to write well →

August 14, 2024 by Gail Smith in Achievement, Activity, Children, Communication, Education, Family, Finding Help, Independence, Language development, Language skills, Learning, Library, Listening, Parenting, Potential, Problem Solving, School involvement, Screen time, Self Esteem, spelling, Starting School, Support, Technology, Writing

Some children struggle with writing, finding it difficult to start and continue their stories. Parents can help by providing engaging activities that spark motivation. Gail Smith offers suggestions to show children the power of the written word. Read on to discover more on how to encourage your child's writing journey!

Why it is important to monitor the mental health of your child →

August 14, 2024 by Gail Smith in Achievement, Activity, Anxiety, Appreciation, Behaviour, Children, Communication, Emotional Intelligence, Gratitude, Learning, Parenting, Safety, Self Confidence, Starting School, Support, teenager, Well being

In today's complex world, children face an overwhelming influx of information from social media and other sources. It's crucial to ensure their happiness and sense of security during the early years to build mental resilience. By being present, listening well, and working together to solve problems, parents can foster resilience and reassurance in their children. Gail Smith emphasizes the importance of monitoring and supporting your child's mental health.

Six reasons why giving your child quality time works →

August 07, 2024 by Gail Smith in Activity, Behaviour, Children, Communication, creative, Education, Experiences, Family, Happiness, Independence, Learning, Parenting, Personality, Positive Behaviour, Problem Solving, relationship, Self Confidence, Stress, Well being

The time you spend with your child is invaluable and leaves a lasting impact on their sense of being loved and secure. As they grow into teenagers and become more independent, those shared moments become even more precious. Gail Smith shares six surprising benefits of dedicating time to your child in this insightful blog post.

Keep yourself well and healthy as a parent →

July 31, 2024 by Gail Smith in Appreciation, Behaviour, Children, Decision Making, Emotional Intelligence, Emotions, Family, Finding Help, Happiness, Kindness, Learning, Mindfulness, Mental Support, Memories, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, Problem Solving, relationship, Resilience, Sleep, Support, Stress, Well being

As parents, it's easy to focus solely on our children's well-being and overlook our own. However, maintaining our own mental and physical health is crucial for effective parenting. Gail Smith explains how prioritizing self-care enhances our ability to be the best parents we can be. Keep your well-being at the forefront to savor the joys of parenting.

It is important to speak well to your children →

July 31, 2024 by Gail Smith in active listening, Appreciation, Behaviour, Children, Communication, Confidence, Decision Making, Education, Emotional Intelligence, Family, Emotions, Gratitude, Kindness, Language, Language development, Language skills, Learning, Listening, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, relationship, Role model, Self Confidence, Self Esteem

Children quickly pick up on what you say and how you say it, understanding the value you place on them. Gail Smith highlights six compelling reasons why speaking positively to children is crucial and the potential harm caused when we don’t. This insightful blog post sheds light on the importance of nurturing communication.

How To Keep Your Anger Under Control Around Children →

July 24, 2024 by Gail Smith in Behaviour, Children, Communication, Confrontation, Education, Emotional Intelligence, Family, Learning, Mental Support, Parenting, relationship, Well being

Feeling angry from time to time is natural, especially when tired or overwhelmed, but frequent displays of anger can significantly impact children. Intermittent anger can confuse and distress them, often causing them to withdraw. Gail Smith shares useful strategies to help you manage your anger.

Persevering as a parent makes such a difference to your child →

July 24, 2024 by Gail Smith in Children, Communication, Education, Emotional Intelligence, Emotions, Learning, Mental Support, Mindfulness, Perseverance, Well being, Worry

Parenting can be incredibly challenging, especially on days when you’re exhausted and overwhelmed. While scaling back on some parenting responsibilities might ease your burden, remember that perseverance will ultimately pay off. Gail Smith highlights the benefits of maintaining perseverance in parenting.

Self Care Tips for Busy Parents →

July 17, 2024 by Gail Smith in Activity, Children, Emotions, Family, Gratitude, Happiness, holiday, Kindness, Laughter, meditation, Mental Support, Mindfulness, Parenting, Relax, Sleep, Sports, Stress, Well being

Remember, a tired parent may find it challenging to give their best to their child. It's essential to prioritize your own happiness and health, as it directly impacts your ability to parent effectively. Gail Smith offers nine practical suggestions to help you create a personal well-being routine. Taking time for yourself amidst the busyness of each day is key to feeling fulfilled and being the best parent you can be.

Keep A Look Out For Signs Of Stress In Your Child →

July 17, 2024 by Julie Merrett in Authenticity, Behaviour, Children, Communication, Confidence, Councelling Techniques, Counselling Tips, Education, Emotions, Experiences, Family, Finding Help, Mental Support, Parenting, Problem Solving, Safety, Responsibility, Self Esteem, Sleep, Stress, Support, Trauma, Well being

In today's world, we often check in on our children's mental health. Social media and other challenges faced by youth remind us to stay vigilant. Gail Smith points out some common triggers that may indicate your child is under too much stress. By recognizing these signs, you can better gauge your child's well-being and offer support when needed. It's important to keep an eye out for these cues to ensure your child feels safe and supported.

Be Authentic With Your Child - It Builds Strong And Trusting Relationships →

July 17, 2024 by Gail Smith in Authenticity, Communication, Confidence, Children, Independence, Parenting

When you're true to yourself, parenting becomes more natural and fulfilling, devoid of the pressure to pretend or conform to unrealistic expectations. Gail Smith highlights the profound benefits of authenticity in nurturing your child's growth and fostering a deeper connection based on honesty and mutual understanding.

Never Underestimate How Important You Are To Your Child At Any Age

July 16, 2024 by Gail Smith in Children, Communication, Confidence, Family, Father, Mother, Mother's Love, Mum, Raising Boys, Raising girls, Role Model

It’s easy to forget the value that our children place on us.

'If you are emotionally and physically present for your child, you are a parent with impact'

-Gail J Smith

Keep An Eye On Your Child's Mental Health

July 15, 2024 by Gail Smith in active listening, Emotional Intelligence, Family, Father, Mental Support, Mindfulness, Mother, Parenting, Support, Well being, Worry

Early detection of your child’s mental health can lead to more effective treatment options. If a parent notices their child is unusually withdrawn or anxious, addressing it early can prevent more serious issues like depression or anxiety disorders. Be alert to changed moods.

The importance of your child attending school regularly →

June 19, 2024 by Gail Smith in Achievement, Activity, Behaviour, Children, Communication, Education, Happiness, Independence, Learning, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, school, School involvement, Self Confidence, Self Esteem, Starting School, Well being

Ensuring your child is keen and interested in school is vital. When they feel it's important to attend, you can be reassured they are engaged with their school environment. Gail Smith shares five essential reasons why regular attendance is crucial for a well-adjusted child at school. Discover these insights to support your child's educational journey.